Showing posts with label matrimonial. Show all posts
Showing posts with label matrimonial. Show all posts

Tuesday, April 15, 2014

Types of Indian Weddings- Malayalee Wedding

We have heard of the Big Fat Indian Weddings everywhere. In contrast, the Malayalee weddings are short and simple.  Rich in traditions and rituals, Malayalee Weddings start with finding the right Muhurtham. Once the horoscopes of bride and groom are matched, a auspicious day/date is set for other important rituals of the wedding. This is usually done by the Family Priest or Astrologer. 



Post this there is the Engagement Ceremony, usually held at the bride's home. Though a small affair, almost all close family members/relatives are invited to bless the couple. This ceremony usually confirms the marriage. The couple exchange rings, and is followed by a lavish feast of traditional mouthwatering delicacies. Puja or visit to a temple is a must in every wedding. The  family appeals to the Family Deity to bless them. This is usually done a day prior to the Wedding date. The bride has to sit facing the East and is served a five course vegetarian meal as everyone else. Post this the bride offers prayers to the Almighty and seeks blessings from elders. Similar ceremonies are held at the Groom's residence as well. 

On the Wedding Day, before proceeding at the venue, the Bride and Groom seek blessings from all the elders present. Bride wears rich saree embossed in gold. Bride usually wears a two- piece saree known as the set saree. 



Her hair is adorned with fresh jasmine flowers and wears a lot of gold jewellery. The groom on the other hand is dressed in a simple dhoti and a plain white silk shirt. Malayalee grooms also wear a lot of gold jewellery like rings, bracelets and chains.

The groom is welcomed by the bride’s family to the beats of traditional music. The music is played as a gesture of welcoming the groom and his family. The bride’s brother welcomes the groom by washing his feet at the doorstep. The groom responds to this gesture by gifting the brother something usually made of gold. Thereafter the groom proceeds to the 'mandap' accompanied by his relatives. He sits next to his bride in the mandap who is already present there after making three rounds around the mandap.

The wedding ceremony is called Veil. This is conducted by the priest. The groom ties a Mangalsutra known as “thaali” in Malayalam round the bride’s neck during the muhurtham. The couple then exchanges garlands and this ritual is followed by Kanyadaan. 
Kanyadaan is usually done by the Bride’s father. The Father- of- the- bride places the bride’s hand over the groom’s hand symbolically suggesting that he hands over the responsibility of his daughter to the Groom. 
The couple then circles the mandap thrice and the groom then applies 'vermillion' also called 'Sindoor' on the bride’s forehead at the parting of her hair. The bride then applies sandalwood paste on the groom’s forehead and the couple seek blessing from their parents. 

The Wedding Ceremony is followed by lavish meal hosted by the Brides family. Post Wedding Rituals are usually a Reception hosted by the Grooms Family. This function is usually done to formally introduce the Bride to the extended family. 



The bride is welcomed by the maternal sister of the groom. This is usually called Grihapravesham. She welcomes her with an aarti performed using a traditional lamp which she then hands over to the bride. The bride walks into her new house holding the burning lamp in her hand. The bride and groom are then offered a mixture of sweetened milk and banana.


Visiting the bride’s home: A day after the wedding the bride and the groom along with a few of the groom’s relatives, visit the bride’s home. A lavish feast is arranged for them. The bride and the groom then pay a visit to both their close relatives to formally introduce each other.

Tuesday, April 8, 2014

How the Courtship Period moulds a Good Marriage Life

Indian weddings have evolved over a continuum of time. Be it with the help of an Indian Matrimonial Site, just through relatives or maybe after falling in love; the way marriages are handled and organized now has transformed. Times have changed and so has the people’s thinking. Culture has a very important role to play in Indian families. And every family has a different set of do’s and don’ts. 

Earlier, couples would get married almost as soon as the marriage was fixed. Now, Indian families believe in having giving the couple a decent time-gap between the engagement and marriage for courtship, so that they can get to know each other better. This is significant phase in the life of a couple as it will help you understand and determine a number of facets of your married life. 

Firstly, an Indian marriage is not the union of a man and a woman. It is the union of two families. So, your courtship period is a very important facet of your pre-wedded life. This is the best time to know each others’ families. Especially for a girl, it is of utmost importance. The girl mingles with the boy’s family and it will give her an idea about what kind of people there are and how they mingle. Even a boy must mingle with the girl’s side, as this will help you comprehend her background and upbringing of their spouse-to-be. 

Secondly, different families have their own style and system of living. One should be aware of what to expect in future. Certain families are forward and less religious, while few are religious and conservative. Understanding their culture and lifestyle is very essential.

Third, The courtship is the best time for a couple to get close and know each other. Spending quality time and discussing small to big problems, even arguing; gets one another close and increase their compatibility. 

Fourth, If you intend to continue studying or have predetermined goals about working, which include travelling a lot then such details should always be spoken out and clarified. If such matters are not clearly talked about during your courtship, it may lead to discontent in the future. 

Fifth, discuss aspects such as how you jointly wish to manage your social life, daily routines, work life as well as family life. If he or she thinks any different, you both should come out with a solution that makes you both happy. 

Sixth, both the partners must make an effort to mingle with each other’s friends in this period so you both get to be yourselves and he or she can understand your actual personality. 

Seventh, there are few more points that need to be discussed before marriage. Like, how many children do you and your partner want and when do you want to have children. 

Courtship is essentially a prologue of your life after marriage! Especially, if you are married to someone you got connected to over an Indian Matrimonial Site, or any other route of arranged marriages. 

Courtship is necessary while getting married. Be it a love marriage or through an Indian Matrimonial Site, one needs to know what he or she should expect after being married.

Tips to finding the right Partner



Choosing a partner with whom you can spend your life with is a rather important decision. In today’s modern day and age, Indian arranged marriages too, are conducted via rather unconventional routes. The existence of matrimonial websites has made it possible for brides and grooms to look for their better halves with relative ease. 


Before you start your hunt, you need to consider the following – 

Understanding who you are - It is important that before you interact with or meet with any potential life partner, you gain significant self awareness that allows you to grow into an honest and open minded individual. Start now, by working on your weaknesses so that you don’t need to impose any personal baggage on the new relationship. Be confident about your belief system and you will be able to attract towards yourself the perfect match.

Understand what you are Looking for in your Partner -Knowing what it is that you expect will help you avoid getting into a relationship with a person who eventually has different goals in life than yours. 

Ask the Right Questions - It is important that you go well beyond the conventional professional and hobby related questions to assess whether or not your potential partner suits you. Also, if you are a Manglik, it is best to clarify the same from the beginning. Also discuss factors such as ethics, spiritual belief systems and even dietary habits that can prove to be critical when you live together. 


Avoid making any Commitments with any individual before you really get to know him or her- Relationships often get clouded by physical intimacy. If you have moved on to the courtship stage, it is important that you work hard to really get to know the person. Getting to know your future partner deeply is excellent for a sustainable long term relationship.

Making the Families Meet - In an Indian matrimonial setting especially, it is important that the families get along as much as the couple does. Since you will most likely be living with your in laws or interacting with them on a very regular basis, it is critical that you and your own family get to know your partner’s family. Also understand if they have any inhibitions with regards to you or your partner being a Manglik. The elder’s of the family are always able to come up with practical solutions to such potential problems.

By spending enough time with your partner and his or her family, you can make informed assessments of your life together as husband and wife.


Finding a life partner can be quite a daunting task considering how it can affect your life. This article discusses how you can go about finding the perfect spouse for yourself.



Monday, April 7, 2014

Interesting Indian Wedding Traditions

India is a diverse land that holds a myriad of traditions. Each community has their own unique rite of passage. While some may be endearing to learn about others can be purely strange. However, they all come together to form the wedding ceremony that celebrates the matrimonial unification of two souls. 




The Ascetic Groom 

Among the Tamil Brahmins, there is a matrimonial tradition where the groom is expected to pretend to become suddenly disillusioned and want to renounce worldly pleasures. He along with his friends, leave the wedding venue in a traditional dhoti, and the father and other relatives of the bride need to persuade him to return and accept the bride.

Abductions for Marriage 

In some very ancient Indian tribes, it was a norm that marriage can take place only by abduction. As per this tradition, the young man is expected to carry his lady away on his back, make sure she stays hidden for a year and then have a wedding ceremony that is automatically consented for by the parents of the bride. 



Contractual Weddings 

As 'untraditional' as it may sound, the Nagarattars of Tamil Nadu have a tradition right after the ceremonial tying of the Mangalsutra, where the fathers of both the groom and bride are expected to sign a document that states the marriage contract between the families. This contract is known as the isaivu padimaanam. 

Deeper the Color the More the Love

Every Indian bride applies mehendi on her hands and feet before she gets married. It is commonly believed that the deeper the color of the mehendi, the more her husband will love her. In some traditions, it is also believe that the color justifies the love between a mother in law and the bride. Bride’s are also forbidden from doing any housework till the mehendi remains in her hands.

Veiling the Groom 

In many parts of North India, the face of the groom is kept hidden with a floral veil with an aim to protect him from the evil eye. At some point of the wedding ceremony, a member of the bride’s family is permitted to lift the veil briefly to make sure that the groom is the chosen one. 

With so many enchanting matrimonial traditions and ceremonies, an Indian wedding is not only a manifestation of love between the bride and the groom, but also the attachments that are developed between each family member. 


The Indian wedding is a rather enchanting experience to have for those who aren’t familiar with its elaborate rituals and customs. This article talks about the different traditions that are followed in different parts of the country.


Romantic ways to propose

You may have spent months or even years interacting with different profiles on online matrimonial sites, and finally, you have found that one girl who makes you skip your heart beats and make your feet melt. Even though your relationship may have started rather unconventionally, complete with awkward conversations and a whole lot of apprehensions, you can change the dynamics by giving her one of the most special proposals.

While asking for her hand to marry you, you may consider using some of the following creative ideals to show how deeply you feel about her –

·      Fireworks
Who will not go weak in the knees when they see a beautiful display of colors exploring in the sky before them. You can have your friends to put up a firework display when you go down on your knees, or get in touch with a firework manufacturer who will be able to custom make one for you with a special message.

·     Candlelight Dinner – A rather classic and traditional way to pop the question, this may just turn out to be the most appropriate way to propose to someone you met on an online matrimonial site. You can take her to her favorite restaurant and request the staff to give you a quiet corner where you can have some privacy. Request them to play some of her favorite love songs and set the mood with candles.

·    Serenade your Love – Singing a song of love to the one you intend to spend the rest of your life with is probably the most heart melting experience a girl can have. You don’t need to write your own song, but just pick one that means something to the two of you. You can set the scene by making sure she is caught off guard with the song. However, it is best that you practice in advance relying on last minute preparation can have quite disastrous results. You can also consider altering a popular song to incorporate the proposal lyrics.

·     Plan a Treasure Hunt – An innovative way to propose is by setting up an intelligent treasure hunt of sorts which takes your lady love to different parts of the city to finally find you and a proposal waiting for her.

Considering the fact that you met your spouse on an online matrimonial site, chances are that she may already be expecting a proposal. This makes it all the more a reason to create a special occasion for her and give her a proposal that she will never forget!



As conservative as may sound to find your life partner on an online matrimonial site, you can help break the ice and start your life together on a highly romantic note by giving her the best proposal ever. Here are a few ideas you may steal! 


Anatomy of Matrimonial Websites

The age-old saying - "marriages are made in heaven" - appears to have become redundant now. Marriage may be sacramental but the modern day couples find their matches not anymore by the conventional ways, thanks to internet that have offer opportunities to speed date , explore and approach the possible groom or bride.

Online Matrimony is here for good!


A search on matrimony simply over the search engine will throw links of websites that are commercially operated on a business model that draws revenue from the bride and groom and from the business of selling ads.

Create your ID, subscribe for advanced search, find the right match and approach the girl/boy. These days’ marriage sites have platforms wherein couples can chat and interact with the person he or she likes. 

Almost 90 per cent of their revenue comes from user subscription fee, which ranges from Rs 3,290 to Rs 50,000 per quarter .Online matrimony not only rely only on subscription model for growth their business goes in to the length and breadth of the marriage ceremonies, many such websites offer end to end solutions to the customers.

Online matrimony business also requires continuous investment on customer acquisition, as the customer lifetime is on an average about six to nine months; therefore lot of emphasis is laid on customer acquisition.


Sustaining the folklore -

Matrimonial websites have been segmented not just considering Trans geographical/cultural dimensions but also by taking in to consideration astrological aspects. There are host of websites that specifically focus on the Manglik Matrimonial, where the matchmaking is made easier between Manglik boy and girl. Manglik Matrimonial in a way is a boon for the rather unfortunate youth who would have had a hard time finding their match through conventional ways. With a platform in place it’s easier to match Manglik prospects these days.

Heading skywards-

Online matrimonial websites is Rs.510 crore matrimony classifieds market with 2.2 million profiles uploaded per month. These websites work on a 50-70% margin.

Saving the grace of the business-

Considering the rising tide of divorces across urban India that could threaten the businesses of these websites, online matrimony portals have started to adopt innovative measures to imbibe values of a happy married life amongst the youth. Their services include counseling, offering free books on the dos and don'ts of a happy marriage through mailers and links to social media and blogs.





To Summarize: Matrimony websites can be deceitful, so be prudent and judicious while browsing matrimonial websites. Be alert; fix matches after making proper due-diligence. 

Wednesday, April 2, 2014

The new age Professional Bride

Independence has had various effects on our country. While some are good and progressive, the others were bad and detrimental. At the same time, it has been among the few countries that have been able to adopt a piece of the Western culture without compromising on our rich culture and inheritance.



Traditional beliefs, rituals, notions and perceptions have evolved with time. In the mayhem of change over the past 65 years, people have modernized and so have their thought processes. Before, parents would rely on bureaus and references from relatives to find their children life partners, now children and parents together avail the services of matrimonial websites for the sake of finding marital bliss.

What was unacceptable earlier is a trend now. For that matter, marriage is a classic paragon where the married women have empowered new heights.


Work has Become Important

With the increasing need for double income families, dynamics of marriage have changed to a great extent. Women earlier considered as mere homemakers who would toil day in and day out to keep the husband and his family happy, are now, treated with dignity and equality at the workplace. The importance of a girl has evidently increased. Women are working and it has become an acceptable sight to have the man and the woman walk out of the house at the same time every morning to get to work.  Such instances have been at the grace of globalization and westernization.

An amalgam of education and work has stirred an air of freedom and independence to women. Being able to work and having one’s own identity has evolved another barrier of restriction. Recent research reveals that more and more of the women prefer marrying only after they are standing on their own feet. When questioned, they said that- Times have changed and women have slowly started playing an equal role in financially supporting the family. Additionally, if they weren't learned and smart, what cultural values and knowledge will their children imbibe?

Dynamics have evolved

Staying in a joint family has been a traditional way of life. And in India, women are highly looked up to after they are married with children. Even though much hasn't changed on that frontier, women now balance their family ties as well as their professional expectations. It has become a casual affair, to see a woman working and handling house chores. In fact, families take pride in possessing a daughter-in-law who take care of her household responsibilities as well as work liability.

Today, families are thinking about practicality and their financial status quo. There are a few families which are nuclear in nature. Where the husband and wife are both career oriented and have no children. The husband and wife are working to meet ends- rents, daily prerequisites, investment policies and luxuries. Chauvinism has become passé and wife-husband relationships stand at an equal juncture. With husbands now lending a helping hand in the kitchen and even spending time with the children, roles started changing. Men are now making an effort to help their family bonds strengthen at home and women are venturing their way out to make their own identity.



Choosing Profession over Marriage

Some women have even held their marriages at bay, centering their profession as the most pivotal part of their lives. Bound by work and their goals to accomplish more, several women choose to marry only if they would be allowed to work without restrictions. They have even gone to the extent of adding such details in their bio-data, on Matrimonial Websites.

When a girl marries and goes to her husband's house, she is not just married to her husband, but the entire family. Women thence, play a significant role in enhancing the family's betterment. Being ambitious and street-smart will only help the women uphold good values and disseminate all her knowledge and information to her children and family. At present, beyond the constraints of suppression and discrimination, married women stand strong and they efficiently strike a rightful balance between work and family.

Summary:

Married women in India are able to efficiently stir a perfect balance between work and married life, taking all their responsibilities into account.



Indian Wedding Traditions and Superstitions


A matrimonial event in India comes with a lot of baggage with respect to traditions and superstitions. A wedding is considered to be among the most sacred events in the lives of people and hence all the possible measures are taken to make sure that no negativity encroaches upon the events of the marriage as well as the happiness in the lives of the couple hereafter. 




Among the many factors that are taken into consideration before a couple gets married, the most important one is that of the presence of the mangal dosha. The existence of this dosha is believed to have catastrophic results on the couple and hence extra care is taken in form of astrological counselling, rituals and prayers to make sure that there is no occurrence of unwanted events during the course of the life of either the bride or groom. 


Speaking of the wedding event itself, there are number of traditions and rituals that are followed around the country to minimize the negative effect of the ‘evil eye’ on the bride or the groom. Here are some of the most popular and common traditions – 

1.  After the engagement, many families believe that if the bride carries a knife or any other such sharp metal object with she at all times, she will be able to easily protect her virtue from the world including from her own fiancé. 

2.  Some Indian cultures believe that it is good luck if a cat eats out of the left shoe of a bride or a groom a week before the big day.

3.  At the same time, many families take is as bad luck if boiling milk spills over during or right before the wedding. It is taken a sign of an impending disaster. 

4.  As orthodox as it may sound, in many villages of India, if the family of the groom is on the way to express their liking towards a prospective bride, it is believed that they may reject the offer in fear of bad luck if they spot a blind man, monk or pregnant woman on the way. 

5.  At the same time, it is considered to be good luck if the family spots wolves pigeons or goats. It is thought unlucky for the bride to make her own wedding dress.

6.  It is considered highly unlucky for the bride to make her own wedding outfit. 

7.  While borrowing a wedding dress brings your good luck, it is believed to bring back luck to the one who lends it. 

8.  The bride along with other women of the household are known to send lentil balls to the house of the groom as a sign to ensure that the kitchen is always filled with food to eat at all times. 

9.  While it is considered bad luck to see an open grave, lizard, pig or a cockerel crow on your wedding, it is considered good luck to see a rainbow, black cat or chimney sweep on your wedding day. 


Many of these superstitions may sound extremely conservative to a modern, progressive family; irrespective of their historical relevance, traditions and superstitions such as that of the mangal dosha are very much prevalent even in today’s more educated environment. Instead of blindly following any one of these, it is recommended that you first get a clear understanding behind each one’s relevance and apply what’s practical in your personal lifestyle.

Summary

India is known for its rich culture and traditions. With it, comes a long list of superstitions which may have had historical significance that has been lost in modern living. Understand each superstition and its relevance before you choose to blindly follow what the society asks you to.

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Planning the Perfect Manglik Matrimony

The families have met, the horoscopes have been matched, and all the necessary rituals to ward off the negative effects of the Manglik Dosha have been effectively performed. It is now time to start planning the wedding festivities, a time that brings great joy and also a lot of stress and anxiety with it. Before you get yourself all worked up and overwhelmed, make sure you have taken into consideration the following crucial factors to help you plan your wedding a lot better.
How much are you willing to spend?
The first step to planning your Manglik matrimony is to determine how much you are willing to spend on the events. The budget that you set aside for the wedding will help you define the scale of the events and the type of events that you wish to organize. Considering the elaborate nature of a quintessential Indian wedding, there are unlimited permutations and combinations of events that you can host and rituals that you can follow. Also, depending on your budget you will be able to negotiate deals with the various vendors that go into organizing a wedding party. 
How many people do you wish to invite?
Depending on the number of people you wish to invite you will have to pick venues that accommodate your guest list comfortably. For example, even if a lot of your crowd may be rolling, so as to say, it is not recommended for you to try to fit in a crowd of 500 people in a venue that accommodates only 300. The length of your guest list will also determine how much your caterers will cost you as well as determine other variable costs that are liable to take place through the wedding.
When do wish to get married?
The wedding date in a Manglik matrimony is decided on multiple factors. Most traditional Indian families prefer to consult their priests for options of auspicious dates on which the couple can tie the known. Once the family priest has made the announcement of the most suitable dates, you need to shortlist venues which may be available on those dates and also factor in the above two considerations. If you are getting married during peak wedding season, it is likely that you may have to book your venue as early as one year in advance to get a desired venue.
Things to Consider on the Day of the Wedding
--  Time is of great importance especially when in a Manglik Wedding you are required to abide by the auspicious hours for all the rituals and ceremonies that take place.
--   Also, it isn't good to keep your guests waiting to join in your celebrations.
-- Be prepared for everything beforehand. Don’t leave anything for the last minute. Procrastination will get you in trouble here. There are bound to be a million things to take care of on that very day itself, so consider planning in advance and delegate it to friends and family members in the hosting and management of the event. 
With good planning and consideration, there is no way that you will not be able to throw a successful wedding party that the couple and the guests will remember for life.

There are a lot of things that need to be taken care of while planning a Manglik wedding. This article gives you basic guidelines on effective wedding planning. 

The Placement of Planet Mars and its Impact on your Marital Life

According to the indian Vedic Astrology, Mars is considered to be a hostile planet and inauspicious by many. It is known to have a negative influence on one’s marriage life and a person who is affected by these planetary positions either ends up remaining unmarried, or have other negative consequences with respect to health, wealth and happiness of a marriage. The native under this condition is commonly known as a Manglik.





 What is the Mangal Dosha?

As per Vedic astrology this condition considers the planet Mars as an Ascendant and if it is placed in the 2nd, 4th 7th, 8th or 12th houses at the time of birth of a native, it is not considered to be a good sign. It is believed that the planet Mars contributes to all the negativity that goes on in a marriage and when it is placed in one of these houses, it becomes even more malefic.

The malefic impact of this planet varies depending on what house it has been placed in. Let’s understand how the placement of the planet truly influences the marriage of a Manglik native –



  •      Mars in Ascendant – The ascendant signifies the health of a native; his or her physical stability as well as personality. If the planet Mars is placed in the Ascendant, the native tends to be a little aggressive and impolite; his or her nature may be uncompromising, and even vindictive to an extent. Not only is it believed that these planetary positions work against the happiness of the life of a native, but it is also believed to be a major cause of differences between the native and his or he life partner.

  • .    Mars in the 2nd House – The presence of the planet Mars in this house signifies the wealth of the native and his or her family relationships. This condition may also result in separation with her or her spouse and there may be constant stress and differences with the life partner. This position also influences the children of the native in a negative manner.


  •    Mars in the 4th House – Though this planetary placement offers stability in wealth, but the life of a native in this condition is not easy. In addition to a disturbed married life, the native can be a little rigid under these conditions.

  •    Mars in 7th House – This is the house of the marriage and life partners. Mangliks who find the planet mars in this house tend to find life-partners who are unhealthy. It is believed that this house also encourages unethical behaviour, extra-marital affairs etc.

  • .    Mars in the 8th House – This house signifies, joy, sorrow, longevity and other incidents of life. It is known to destroy all happiness and provide a lot of mental stress. The native may face issues in flow of income. At the same time, it is believed that if the 8th house transits in Taurus, Virgo or Capricorn, the negativity of the condition reduces.

  •      Mars in the 12th House – This house is the house of happiness, travelling, relaxation and material indulgence. This condition can result the lack of sympathy and affection between the couple. It is also deemed to bring in financial instability and it also enhances the chances of unethical behaviour of the native.

 Before you get paranoid about how these planetary conditions will influence your marital life, it is recommended that you consult a qualified and well known astrologer to get appropriate remedies.



Summary
The presence of planet Mars in certain houses can prove to be harmful to one’s marriage life. Read more to understand how this positions influence you and your spouse.



Big Punjabi Weddings

There are a number of websites to find a Punjabi Matrimonial, in the swift and practical world today. They provide a perfect match for every Punjabi residing in India as well as overseas, in cities like London or Toronto. Parents usually stress over their child's marriage as these matrimonial websites help them find a perfect match of their preference. Be it music, religion, education, interests and hobbies or nature; there is a soulmate for every Punjabi now. 

Marriage has many facets and keeping that in mind, a series of options from good looks to good status and qualifications to disposition is provided. Having similar qualities and appropriating one another' s attitudes and behavior, is what moulds marriages and families. 

Punjabis are diverse in nature, yet versatile. The culture comprises meaningful rituals, traditions and beliefs. Keeping these cultural bounds in mind, certain compatible matches for you are looked for. Finding you the right match is their goal and there is assurity that, they will endow you with a "And they lived... Happily Ever After...”

A lot of promises are made. Albeit, these websites will certainly fulfill your expectations and promises. You will be glad, to have chosen such an online Internet facility as a medium of your "personal happiness".

The Perfect Solution to Manglik Punjabi's

There is a large number of Mangliks around the globe - Some are happily married and some are still looking for their soul-mates. Being a Manglik doesn't mean that you have to compromise in any way or manner. There is no need to contemplate, whether or not you will find a good partner. In fact, Mangliks consist 40% of the Indian population in this day and age. Finding a Punjabi Manglik will not mean any compromises or adjustments. These websites enhance your chances to find a life partner, without any difficulty - be it a Manglik or not. You can even choose certain profiles over others. You get a chance to select your own amicable prospects. There are good personified Manglik singles, belonging to well cultured families. It is an honor to find you the righteous and most suited partner from all over the globe.

Trust is  important in any relationship to succeed. These websites enable you to choose a partner, giving you options to look for a match staying in India or abroad - The choice is yours! They go an extra mile for you to understand a person through the personal data available. This will help you make sure your interests match your prospects' interests, thereon deliberating your likes or dislikes. 

Brian Tracy once said, "The quality of love and the duration of a relationship are in direct proportion to the depth of the commitment by both people to making the relationship successful. Commit yourself wholeheartedly and unconditionally to the most important people in your life." Specialized Punjabi Matrimonials thus, help you find a partner who would value your relationship, with significance and love.

Copious websites aide such help and due to the clutter of websites, each will try and comfort you with their credibility and worth, making impeccable matches.

Everyone goes home with a small love story and a happy ending! To summarize large number of Punjabi Matrimonial websites will seek partners for you, sharing similar interests and favourable family background. Along with a series of choices, they offer you the flexibility of finding a match staying in India or overseas.

Friday, March 28, 2014

Being a Happily Married Manglik

Everyone prefers a complete balance life with good family, friends, children, marriage, love and a successful profession. Success in all such areas can give happiness to an individual and let him or her live a content life. At the same time, today’s youth is going through a complete transition of values, principles, beliefs and sorts where they have been raised and brought up in a relatively orthodox and traditional environment which demands sticking to roots. However, at the same time also have a broad access to contemporary and modern ideas which allows them to spread their wings and not be bound by traditional principles and values which at times hold them back in achieving things they desire.



Is Being Traditional not accepted?

Indian values, tradition and principles have played a significant role in shaping the face of modern India and its culture. One cannot ignore the benefits of cultural upbringing and traditional thoughts which lays the foundation of family values, relationships and other ethics in every walk of life. It helps an individual to stick to its reality. At the same time lot of people follow such beliefs and principles blindly without knowing its significance. They do not have any clear understanding of the situation.
Now a day’s young generation prefers to choose their own life partners over those found by their families. In any of the cases parents prefer to match the horoscopes to ensure neither of them is a Manglik. 

Manglik matching is one of the most essential criteria for a partner’s acceptance by the family. This definitely tends to be one of the biggest hindrances in the happiness of their children who can 
otherwise live a happy married life. This astrological angle can have an adverse impact on their relationship.


Is The Concept of Manglik a Hoax?

Though one cannot challenge the accuracy of Vedic astrology, believing in it is completely personal choice. There have been cases where couple leading a good and healthy life with one of them, being a manglik. At the same time few cases have seen ill effects and problems with of one of the partner being a manglik. If there is a good compatibility and understanding between two partners, such horoscopes should not be a hindrance. One should not give up easily on the partner just because one of them is a manglik.


Are there ways to protect the Spouse from this Astrological Condition?

One need not be intimidated with horoscopes mentioning something unfavorable. As per suggested by few astrologers, 80% of human race falls in the category of Manglik. Hence there is primarily nothing to fear. Also, in case one is getting married to a manglik consult an astrologer. There are lots of small solutions that can wipe off possible hindrances. They can recommend rituals and prayers which can protect yourself and your partner from negative consequences. Manglik  matching can also be done by them.


At the end of the day , successful marriages completely depends on how compromising, loving, loyal and practical you and your spouse are. Build a relationship on faith, love and trust. Marriage can be bliss with all these. One should not deny the fact that non-mangliks can also have a failed marriage. Everyone should take a complete ownership of their lives and marriage.