Monday, March 31, 2014

Need for Matrimonial Websites

Rashmi is a 28 years old advertising professional who has worked hard all her life to take on a number of leadership roles and build a successful career for herself. On many a nights, she has to work till late to meet clients deadlines. Her parents are now forcing her to find herself a good soul-mate and settle down.  But she has no time to socialize since she is almost married to her career. 
Thousands of miles away, meet Rahul, an investment banker in New York. He moved to the United States to study and to build a sustainable future for himself. After completing his Master’s he was immediately hired by a one of the Big 4's and his life became an unending circle of meetings, deadlines, weekend lunches and spending most of his days in unknown cities meeting client after client. His parents live in a small city in India and want him to bring some balance in his life by marrying a sensible Indian woman who will help him bring some stability. Neeraj on the other hand, has no time to go out and get to know any Indian woman and hence is pushing off the idea of getting married for now. 

This, is a very typical scene that you will come across among young Indian boys and girls who, for many reasons and shifted priorities and by the time they realize that it’s time to find some companionship, it is too late.

Why choose Online Matrimonial sites??

Sometime around the turn of the millennium, there was an interesting transformation in the way Indian parents and youth decided to approach the entire concept of arranged marriages. Visionaries in India introduced an interesting concept of matrimony websites, which much like today’s social networking websites compelled users to register, share personal information and interact with other prospective brides and grooms, allowing them to open doors to finding Indian marital partners from around the world.

The immediate benefit of this unique concept was felt among parents, society and prospective brides and grooms themselves, which resulted in the growth of the sector at a tremendously pace. 

Why do we need these Websites?

Just like Leena and Neeraj, there are millions of young Indian boys and girls from around the world who are finding it difficult to find for themselves perfect life partners for their own unique reasons. These portals allow users to break on geographical, social and time related boundaries by opening doors to a relatively informal route of interaction which has resulted in facilitating millions of happy marriages.

In today’s day and age, it is important that traditional values are able to integrate with modern technology to fill the gap between conventional ideologies and those of the younger audience. Matrimony websites have been successful in tapping this mass audience of parents and prospective brides and grooms who were looking for higher reach, more reliability and convenience.

Having said that, there is no debate that today’s generation requires tools such as these portals to help them build a complete and fulfilling life for themselves.


For more reasons than one, the Indian youth is in need for tools and portals such as matrimonial websites which aid them in building a fulfilling and complete life.

Friday, March 28, 2014

Being a Happily Married Manglik

Everyone prefers a complete balance life with good family, friends, children, marriage, love and a successful profession. Success in all such areas can give happiness to an individual and let him or her live a content life. At the same time, today’s youth is going through a complete transition of values, principles, beliefs and sorts where they have been raised and brought up in a relatively orthodox and traditional environment which demands sticking to roots. However, at the same time also have a broad access to contemporary and modern ideas which allows them to spread their wings and not be bound by traditional principles and values which at times hold them back in achieving things they desire.

Is Being Traditional not accepted?

Indian values, tradition and principles have played a significant role in shaping the face of modern India and its culture. One cannot ignore the benefits of cultural upbringing and traditional thoughts which lays the foundation of family values, relationships and other ethics in every walk of life. It helps an individual to stick to its reality. At the same time lot of people follow such beliefs and principles blindly without knowing its significance. They do not have any clear understanding of the situation.
Now a day’s young generation prefers to choose their own life partners over those found by their families. In any of the cases parents prefer to match the horoscopes to ensure neither of them is a Manglik. 

Manglik matching is one of the most essential criteria for a partner’s acceptance by the family. This definitely tends to be one of the biggest hindrances in the happiness of their children who can 
otherwise live a happy married life. This astrological angle can have an adverse impact on their relationship.

Is The Concept of Manglik a Hoax?

Though one cannot challenge the accuracy of Vedic astrology, believing in it is completely personal choice. There have been cases where couple leading a good and healthy life with one of them, being a manglik. At the same time few cases have seen ill effects and problems with of one of the partner being a manglik. If there is a good compatibility and understanding between two partners, such horoscopes should not be a hindrance. One should not give up easily on the partner just because one of them is a manglik.

Are there ways to protect the Spouse from this Astrological Condition?

One need not be intimidated with horoscopes mentioning something unfavorable. As per suggested by few astrologers, 80% of human race falls in the category of Manglik. Hence there is primarily nothing to fear. Also, in case one is getting married to a manglik consult an astrologer. There are lots of small solutions that can wipe off possible hindrances. They can recommend rituals and prayers which can protect yourself and your partner from negative consequences. Manglik  matching can also be done by them.

At the end of the day , successful marriages completely depends on how compromising, loving, loyal and practical you and your spouse are. Build a relationship on faith, love and trust. Marriage can be bliss with all these. One should not deny the fact that non-mangliks can also have a failed marriage. Everyone should take a complete ownership of their lives and marriage.